Mood and Attitude Guide

SUCCESS CATEGORY	MOOD LEVEL EMOTION	ACTION, ENERGY LIFE FORCE	AFFINITY GIVE AND TAKE	TALKING TRUST	LISTENING INTEREST	AGREEMENT POINTS OF VIEW	LITERALNESS IN UNDERSTANDING	RELAYING COMMUNICATION	CONCEPT OF TRUTH HONESTY	SEXUALITY CULTURAL DICTATES	CHILDREN CONVENTIONS	TREATING OTHERS HELP	ETHICS TRADITIONS	RESPONSIBILITY	COURAGE SERIOUSNESS	VISIONS/GOALS PERSISTENCE	COMMAND OVER ENVIRONMENT	RELATIONSHIP POTENTIAL SOCIAL VALUE
Thriving	Enthusiasm Eagerness Exhilaration	Excellent at projects and their execution. Fast reaction time (relative to age). Loves action. Very high positive energy; rich source of life force.	Love, strong, outgoing; seeking intimacy and closeness. Generous ("Giver"). Risk to burn out if not properly taking care of own needs.	Strong, able, swift and full exchange of beliefs and ideas. Fun loving, vivid, interesting. Open about personal issues. Very trusting; can cope with disappointments - "bounces back".	Strong, able, swift and full exchange of beliefs and ideas. Very interested - in substantial issues more than in smalltalk. Pays full attention.	Search for different viewpoints in order to broaden own reality. Creatively evolves reality, weeds out obsolete concepts, builds connections and works for the greatest good.	High differentiation. Good understanding of all communication as modified by education. Great sense of humor. Ability to abstract and extrapolate.	Reliable in relaying constructive communication, contributes to it and guards/protects it where needed. Cuts destructive lines (filters out malice). Creates positive new networks; team building.	High concept of truth. Can work intensely and selflessly as an activist to reveal harmful schemes of lies.	Sexual interest high and based on love, but often sublimated to creative thought and activity. Uninhibited; free of sexual taboos; emancipation from culture. Spiritualized sensuality (Tantra). Potential for polyamory depends on bonding type.	Intense interest in children in all matters from physical well-being to education, sports, play, nature, culture and spirituality. Teaches them independent thinking in a way that is forward oriented without burning bridges.	Gains support by creative enthusiasm and vitality backed by reason. Uses communication and motivation rather than control. Compassionate, selfless, help oriented. Potential activist if there is a worthwile cause.	Bases ethics on reason. Very high ethic level in all areas of life from personal to global. Evolves cultural traditions ("Trailblazer"). Discovers areas of neglect and works to improve them. Cooperative but not obedient.	Inherent sense of responsibility in all areas of life from personal to global. Transcends culturally defined boundaries of responsibility; looks beyond and thinks ahead ("Guardian").	High courage level. Will work for the greater good even at the risk of injury to self. Adventurous but not seeking danger. "Spirit of Play" even in serious matters. Relaxed but thorough. Professional attitude.	High creative persistence. Will work patiently for the greater good, often at the expense of a pleasant life, and over many years. Overcomes massive obstacles. Visionary ("Goalmaker").	High self mastery. High and skilled command over environment. Dislikes to control people - leads by example. High reasoning, volatile emotions.	High worth. Apparent worth will be realized. Creative and constructive. Can be very unconventional. Desirable devoted partner (may overwhelm with intensity if spouse or candidate is in a lower mood).
Thriving	Strong interest Mild interest Cheerful	Good at projects, execution, sports. Enjoys being active. High positive energy; source of life force.	Tentative advances, friendliness. Tendency to be generous, but careful about balance of give/take.	Will talk of deep-seated beliefs and ideas. Bright. Charming. Trusting. Not easily wounded when trust is betrayed.	Will accept deep-seated beliefs, ideas and consider them. Good listener; interested.	Ability to understand and evaluate reality of others and to change viewpoint. Agreeable.	Good grasp of language. Can distinguish serious statements from irony, exaggerations, jokes and metaphors. Good sense of humor.	Passes constructive communication. Resents and hits back at destructive lines. Good in using existing networks; good assistant in building teams.	Truthful. May leave out details if they are hurtful to others but not to protect self.	High interest in opposite sex. Can re-evaluate and overcome sexual taboos and cultural dictates. Good lover (modified by education and health). Constancy.	Love of children. Caring. Not totally conventional in bringing up kids (between the mood levels above and below).	Gains support by creative reasoning, charm and vitality. Perceptive of others' needs; helpful. Engages in social projects. Less likely an activist.	Heeds ethics of group but refines them higher as reason demands. The "greatest good" concept has precedence over cultural traditions.	Capable of assuming and carrying on responsibilities. Caring, compassionate. Oversteps cultural boundaries if called upon by conscience.	Courage displayed on reasonable risks. Not totally serious. Enjoys adventures.	Readily adopts positive visions and makes them his own. Good persistence and direction toward constructive goals. Overcomes obstacles.	Reasons well. Positive leadership. Accepts ownership. Emotions free. Liberal.	Good value to society. Adjusts environment to benefit of self and others. Can be unconventional. Reliable and enjoyable as a partner.
Coping	Content Complacent	Capable of fair amount of action, sports. Good energy; utilizing life force.	Tolerance without much outgoing action. Acceptance of advances offered. Follows "proper" social conventions in giving and taking.	Tentative expression of limited number of personal ideas. More reserved and private. Trust only in long-term friends and family.	Receives ideas and beliefs if cautiously stated. Some limited interest. Patient, correct, polite.	Awareness of possible validity of different reality. Conservative agreement.	Good differentiation of meaning of statements. Socially "correct" conservative humor.	Precise in relaying communication. Conservative, somewhat cautious, inclines toward moderate construction and creation.	Cautious of asserting truths. Social lies.	Interest in sex and procreation. Inhibitions; obeys society's sexual taboos. Bonding type often surrendered to mainstream expectations.	Interest in children. Responsible. Education of kids carefully aligned with social conventions ("herd mentality").	Invites support by practical reasoning and social graces. Charitable. Not an activist.	Follows ethics in which trained as honestly as possible. Moral. Does not question traditions even if harmful, ignorant or obsolete.	Mostly reliable in handling responsibilities of a socially accepted nature. Not looking beyond cultural limits.	Conservative display of courage where risk is small. Everything is taken seriously.	Fair persistence if obstacles not too great. Adopts and works for visions agreed upon by society.	Controls bodily functions. Reasons well. Free emotions somewhat inhibited. Allows rights to others. Democratic.	Any apparent worth is actual worth. Fair value. Reliable partner in socially accepted relationship models - adheres to the rules.
Coping	Indifference Boredom	Relatively inactive, but capable of action. Rather low energy; wasting life force.	Neglect of own person or of people, withdrawal from them. Not giving or taking much; managing themselves.	Casual, pointless conversation. Not trying to raise interest, not worried about trust/distrust.	Listens only to ordinary affairs. Little or no interest in others' communication.	Refusal to match two realities. Indifference to conflict in reality. Too careless to agree or disagree.	Accepts very little, literally or otherwise. Apt to be literal about humor.	Cancels (ignores) any communication of higher or lower mood. Devaluates urgencies. Unreliable in relaying.	Insincere. Careless of facts.	Disinterest in procreation; too lazy to make love or nurture a partner; may use porn to deal "solo" with sex drive. Careless about taboos.	Vague tolerance of children. Not much initiative in their upbringing - tends to delegate. Unintended neglect. No interest in conventions.	Careless of support from others; no initiative to support anyone but oneself.	Treats ethics insincerely. Not particularly honest or dishonest. Careless about traditions.	Too careless to be responsible. Benign, but not trustworthy.	Neither courage nor cowardice. Neglect of danger. Not adventurous; too lax to take anything seriously.	Idle; poor concentration. Hardly interested in visions/goals, except for own hobby horses.	In control of function and some reasoning powers. Does not desire much ownership.	Capable of constructive action; seldom much quantity. Small value. "Well adjusted".
Fighting	Expressed resentment	Capable of destructive and minor constructive action. Has energy but more negative than positive; utilizing life force.	Antagonism, opposition, rejecting others, keeping them at a distance. Self-reliant, not a fan of giving or taking.	Talks in threats. Aggressive but controls it. Invalidates other people, but vocabulary still social. Distrust by default.	Listens selectively to threats. Cuts other communication short. Openly mocks constructive talk. No interest in others' communication.	Verbal doubt. Critical. Defense of own reality. Attempts to undermine others. Disagrees.	Accepts only antagonistic remarks, no resonance with constructive talk. Reflex to contradict (they can't help it).	Deals in hostile or threatening communication. Lets only small amount of constructive communication go through. Unreliable in relaying.	Truth twisted to suit antagonism.	Disgust at sex; revulsion. Tendency to invalidate sexual needs as "inferior". Cultural dictates have been assimilated/internalized.	Nagging of and nervousness about children; annoyed. Keeps them at a distance. Quality of care for kids below average. Conventions are accepted.	Nags and bluntly criticizes to demand compliance with wishes. Not helpful.	Below this point: authoritarian. Chronically and bluntly dishonest when occasion arises. Punishing individuality.	Uses responsibility to further own ends.	Impulsive, unreasoning thrusts at danger. Takes things very seriously, especially attacks and opposition.	No interest in visions/goals. Persistence toward destruction of enemies. No constructive persistence below this point.	Antagonistic and destructive to self, others, and environment. Desires command in order to injure.	Possibly dangerous. Any apparent worth wiped out by potentials of injury to others.
Fighting	Anger Rage	Capable of destructive action. Very high negative energy; weaponizing life force.	Hate, violent and expressed. Attacks even if unprovoked. Rage and aggression easily going out of control. Give/take not on their horizon.	Talks of death, destruction, hate only. Massive insults and attacks, abusive language, tangible violent energy. Absolute distrust.	Listens only to death and destruction. Wrecks constructive connections. No interest in others' communication.	Destruction of opposing reality. "You're wrong." Disagrees with reality of others. Massive attempts to overwhelm.	Accepts alarming remarks literally. Reflex to retaliate can escalate to physical violence. Brutal sense of humor.	Turns communication into something destructive regardless of original content. Stops constructive communication. Passes destructive communication and perverts it.	Blatant and destructive lying.	Rape. Sex as punishment or as one of several methods to subjugate and terrorize others. Taboos are broken to frighten people.	Brutal treatment of children. Violent. Emotional and/or physical abuse to a point of being criminal. Can break child abuse laws. Neglect of needs, drastic punishments.	Uses threats, punishment and alarming lies to dominate others. No concept of help.	Below this point: criminal. Immoral. Actively dishonest. Destructive of any and all ethics. Brutally enforcing codes of conduct whether they are ethical or not.	Assumes positions of responsibility in order to destroy. Betrays any trust invested.	Unreasonable bravery, usually damaging to self. Reckless. Risks lives and health of team mates, wastes equipment. Total seriousness (fixation).	No interest in visions/goals. Destructive persistence begins strongly, weakens quickly.	Smashes or destroys others or environment. Failing this, may destroy self. Fascistic.	Insincere. Heavy liability. Tendency to violence - possible murderer. Even when intentions avowedly good, will bring about destruction.
Struggling	Unexpressed resentment	Capable of minor execution. Has energy to tacitly disrupt others' positive team work if they are perceived as a threat. Life force perverted/ corrupted.	Covert hostility ("passive-aggressive"). Urge to spin intrigues. Hates/criticizes "personal growth" work. Can give/take in destructive teamwork.	Talk is apparently constructive, but intent vicious, trying to undermine and unsettle others, especially creative people. Deep distrust against everyone.	Listens little: mostly to cabal, gossip, lies. But keeps up a social facade as to not be detected. Pretended (faked) interest to extract information.	Doubt of own reality. Insecurity. Doubt of opposing reality. All that carefully concealed with faked confidence.	Lack of acceptance of any remarks. Tendency to accept everything literally is avoided by forced humor.	Relays only malicious communication, cuts other communication lines, tacitly attacks and sabotages positive connections by inventing malicious "communication".	Ingenious and vicious perversions of truth. Covers lying artfully.	Promiscuity, perversion, sadism, harmful practices, coercion, abuse of power for sexual gain. Contempt for taboos and constructive cultural patterns.	Use of children for sadistic and perverse purposes. Ruthless, sneaky. Active and abusive pedophilia. Contempt for conventions, but keeps up appearances. Hides from the law.	Nullifies others to get them to a level where they can be used. Devious and vicious means. Mind control, gossip. Seeks hidden control. Hates help.	Sex criminal. Negative ethics. Deviously dishonest without reason. Pseudo-ethical activities screen perversion of ethics. Uses morals to oppress.	Incapable, capricious, irresponsible. Pretends (fakes) responsibility with the aim of controlling others. Betrayal.	Occasional underhanded displays of action, otherwise cowardly. High seriousness but perceptions bad - sees enemies where there are none.	Vacillation on any course. Very poor concentration. Flighty. Can produce and perform for visions and goals hostile/destructive to others.	No control of reason or emotions, but apparent organic control. Uses sly means of controlling others.	Dangerous liability. DIFFICULT TO DETECT. Disturbs others on purpose; tacit sabotage. Apparent worth outweighed by vicious hidden intents.
Struggling	Fear	Capable of minor constructive action, more active in self-defense. Has some energy but lacks efficiency. Weakening life force.	Acute shyness, propitiation. Attempts at team-building for self-defense, can give/take in that context.	Talks about alarming issues and actual or perceived enemies/ threats. No grasp of positive subjects. Good in warning like-minded people. Very painful distrust.	Little ability to listen to other people's issues; will process information about threats and self-defense. Interest only in dangers/threats.	Convinced of own reality, insisting on perception of dangers; too frightened to consider contrasting points of view.	Literal acceptance of alarming communication. Unable to process more positive or hope inspiring information.	Ignores communication lines. (not able to perceive communication lines other than related to threats). Too frightened to pay attention to relaying in matters other than self-defense.	Unbalanced selective perception of information. Priority on alarming data can distort the truth, more positive data can be ignored.	Sex drive often dulled by fear; frantic defense activities may take up all time. Physical intimacy can be welcome as consolation. Taboos are accepted as normal and natural.	Worried about children, great efforts to protect them on a physical level. Children's needs beyond physical survival may be neglected/ignored. Conventions are followed.	Tends to avoid people who are not close. Withdrawal, no attempts to control. Clings strongly to family and friends in self defense. Willing to help and accept help.	Ethical if dangers are real - hightened alertness can save a less aware community. Bad ethics if danger not real - resources will be wasted and others will be disturbed.	Quite responsible if fear is justified by actual present time dangers. Irresponsibly alarming others if fear is a remnant of past trauma or loss.	Determined in making preparations for self-defense, but will hide rather than attack. Strikes back when cornered. Terribly serious.	Persistent (obsessed?) in defensive projects, no creative goals. Eagerly adopting visions and goals to build or improve self defense.	Can be quite efficient in managing equipment and supplies for present time self defense or in preparing for bad times to come. Bad or no control beyond that.	Liability when perceived dangers are not real. Great value in raising alarm when an overly complacent majority is not aware of actual dangers beyond their horizon.
Failing	Grief	Capable of relatively uncontrolled action. Much grief energy, otherwise low energy. Life force draining away.	Withdrawal from people. Cannot give a lot, depends much on support ("Taker"), appreciates it.	Talks about losses. Griefy, tearing up, crying. Self-control overwhelmed by grief. Trust eroding, but trusts friends.	Listening to attempts to pity or console. No interest in others' issues.	Overwhelmed by own situation. Not able to perceive/process others' reality, except fellow sufferers .	Hardly able to process people's statements, except related to own situation.	Too troubled to pay attention to communication that requires relaying. Not intentionally cutting lines, but unreliable.	Not intentionally dishonest, but can be confused about facts, unable to grasp them, and too disturbed to care about being truthful.	Libido is often lost in situations of acute shock or loss. Some sexual desire and activity if grief is chronic. No concept of taboos possibly being arbitrary or oppressive.	Not very aware of children, unless they are the subject of their grief. Automatically follows conventions.	Can disturb others to elicit support. Cries for pity. Can exaggerate the situation to gain sympathy. Not able to help, but grateful if help is offered.	Ethics compromised by personal suffering and emotional pain. No ethics if grief is chronic and/or no guidance available.	None. Can take responsibility for self and fellow sufferers if well guided. Possibly irresponsible if left without help.	Can show courage in processing a fresh shock or loss if well guided. Cowardice if grief is chronic and/or no guidance available. Very serious.	May be active in self-support groups if well guided - else dreamy visions of receiving support and being consoled.	Somewhat functional, but neglect of self and children if in acute state of shock and/or loss.	Liability to society if grief is chronic, in contrast to limited periods of grieving after a loss. Possible suicide. Careless of others.
	Apathy	Capable of relatively uncontrolled action. Very low energy; drained of life force.	Supplication, pleas for pity. Unable to give. Depends very much on support ("Taker").	Talks very little and only in apathetic tones. Trust is crumbling.	Listens little: mostly to apathy or pity. No interest in others' issues.	Shame, anxiety, strong doubt of own reality. Easily has reality of others forced on him.	Literal acceptance of any remark matching the mood level.	Takes little heed of communication. Does not relay.	Details facts with no concept of their reality.	Impotency, anxiety, possible weak efforts to reproduce. No consideration of taboos; social traditions are accepted as natural regardless of how restrictive they are.	Anxiety about children, cannot cope with their needs. Automatically follows conventions.	No initiative to engage others. Suffers quietly or escapes suffering by drugs or medication. Depends on help.	Nonexistent ethics. Not thinking. Obeying anyone.	None.	Complete cowardice. Nothing is serious because nothing matters.	Sporadic persistence toward self-destruction. No visions or goals.	Barest functional control of self only.	Liability to society. Suicide unlikely due to low energy. Utterly careless of others.
	Deepest Apathy	Alive as an organism. No energy left; life force exhausted.	Complete withdrawal from person or people. No concept of give/take. Automatic acceptance of support.	Does not talk. Has no more trust.	Does not listen. No interest in others' issues.	Complete withdrawal from conflicting reality. No reality.	Complete literal acceptance.	Does not relay. Unaware of communication.	No interest in truth.	No effort to procreate.	Unable to deal with children, potentially lethal neglect. Unaware of conventions.	Pretends death so others will not think him dangerous and will go away. Depends on help.	None.	None.	No reaction.	None.	No command of self, others, environment. Suicide unlikely due to low energy, but can die as a result of total self-neglect.	High liability, needing care and efforts from others without making any contribution.